So, my concern for 2 is, exactly exactly what else am we allowed to be leading and exactly how have always been we failing right here? Simply a days that are few, we informed her “I’m done and want a divorce”. Now i’ve extreme regret and remorse, but F $!, reading what I’ve penned angers me… Jamie

DB, Whoa! Not a frontrunner? Looks you’ve got led by spending so much time & providing an excellent protected life for your household, you’ve led when you’re a type person, by humbly searching for solutions in your wedding, by paying attention and really examining when you yourself have a task in your wife’s unhappiness (also by composing right here). That’s the concept of leadership! Just once you understand that which you’ve stated right right here, it seems like your lady is profoundly insecure & does not have self- self- self- confidence (just you understand) in that case, unfortunately for her unhappiness until she finds something worthy within herself to like & builds her self esteem, she will most likely continue to criticize & blame everyone around her. And keep filling drama, a distraction to her life from the within work she has to do. She could even subconsciously resent anything you share with her (love, help, friendships) she herself has not done as it emphasizes what. And just why she has to help keep you experiencing just like a failure & walking on eggshells.